bigtex75081 wrote:In all seriousness, you don't need to ramp up individual sessions or force your kid to do extra work at home. All you need to do is leave a soccer ball out in whatever room your TV is in. Just leave it there in the room and see what happens. Your kid will touch the ball. They'll sit next to it. They'll fiddle with it. When they get bored they'll move it around the room. When they walk to the kitchen they'll dribble it with them. You'll never have to say a word.
I started that 6 months ago with my kids. I just left a ball there like a regular toy in the house. (I do have an excess of soccer balls around here.) My kids just migrated to it. 2 kids, 2 balls waiting in the living room when they get home from school. You'd be shocked how quickly my 8 & 5 year-olds have improved. My BB just always fiddles with it all the time.
NOW... If you try it, and you kid doesn't ever touch the ball at all, you may use that to check yourself. If he avoids the ball all together, he may not love soccer as much as you think.
I endorse this approach. There are several balls laying around our house including a futsal ball and a size 1 "skill ball". Typical afternoon after school at our house:
Mom: Sit down here at the kitchen table and do your homework. I'm going to prepare dinner and can help you if you stay close.
BB: OK
(10 minutes later BB gets up to use the restroom. On his way back he spots a ball, dribbles around some living room furniture, moves into the dining room, executes a few stepovers before finishing strong against the front door, BOOM!)
Mom: WHAT WAS THAT!?! ARE YOU KICKING A BALL IN THE HOUSE!?!
BB: I had to pee and just kicked the ball out of the way while walking back.
Mom: Get over here and finish your homework.
BB: Just one more shot. (convinces his little sister to feed him passes as he takes a few more shots against the front door) BOOM! BOOM! BOOM!
Mom: If you kick that ball one more time...!
BB: Ok, coming. (returns to homework for 10 more minutes before needing to sharpen his pencil.)
(When returning he spots the size 1 ball and takes a few touches before executing a beautiful helicopter and finishes against the side of the couch. Mom doesn't hear the soft finish so he gets more adventurous and starts passing against the couch. thump. thump. thump. thump. Mom finally realizes what the noise is)
Mom: Get in here and finish your homework!!!
BB: Ok. (thump. thump. thump)
(Dad arrives home)
Mom: Will you help BB with his homework. He's been at it for over an hour and hasn't made much progress at all.
Dad: Over an hour? Really? Where is he?
Mom: He's sitting at the kitchen table. (thump. thump. thump.)
... every day...